Sunday, May 25, 2008

Doing Things My Way.

For every blogger,the main thing that they want after publishing their first post is certainly to get people to their blog and of course read it.Having started a blog but with only a handful or sometimes no visitors can be very frustrating.You have done all there is that you know and that you've learn on how to get traffic to your blog,but still didn't get as many as you wish you can.You look at other blogs,yours have a better and much,much nicer template,design.Your content is good,so are theirs but some you think just don't have very quality content..but why do they have a lot of visitors,but yours don't?Why they have page rank but yours don't?

Why put pressure on yourself?You wanted to blog or do you want to enter a contest?Bloggers get so obsessed with numbers,statistic that they forget the main reason they started blogging is because they wanted to write something and share it with others.Yes..without people coming to your blog how can you share?What do you expect to achieve if your blog is only 1 month old,1000++ unique visitors/day?You have done all the necessary thing to introduce your blog to the Internet community,be patient,it will be discovered,you have to have faith and believe in yourself.

We always like to compare what others have,instead of being thankful of what we already have.Your blog is new give it some time to grow,in the mean time,it is better to keep feeding it to make it grow stronger,and the best thing to do is to keep on posting something good,and updating it regularly.Instead of comparing other blogs,just concentrate on yours.There are lots of path you can follow for success,but the best is to create your own path,and if you succeed,others will follow your path.I always believe in myself,and I do things in my own way,sometimes I don't even do what others might do,or follow the path of successful bloggers,yet I believe I can succeed.We can only try to do the best we can,but in the end,it is not up to us whether we succeed or fail.If you believe in God,you will know what I mean.

Always be thankful for what we have and don't look at what we don't have and feeling bad about it.There are others who are not as fortunate in this world.There are people who don't even have a place to call home,no bed to sleep on,no food to eat..There are places that have been struck by disaster,many lives are lost in a very short time,yet here we are,sitting cosily in our own home and regretting about things that we don't have and we wish we could have.If we care to learn about those disaster,we know that we can lose whatever we have just like that,even our own lives.Be thankful,be grateful that we are still alive,because life is God greatest gift to us..

If you're a blogger,be thankful you can still make a post to your blog,even if only 2 people read it today,you never know what will happen tomorrow,will you still be around to make a post or maybe tomorrow you will have 500 people reading your blog..Value what you have ..Value life.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi...this is a very inspiring post of yours. I wish everybody could read this and be enlightened. I was so disappointed when I totally lost my page rank over a month ago. I tried so hard to gain it back and suddenly stopped to realize that things happen on it's own time so why not be thankful instead of looking for something you don't have...Hope you continue inspiring people...It was so nice to have stumbled here in your page. Keep posting!

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nYomoT said...

Thank you very much..this is just my personal thought,it is nice someone else also agree with it.

Drew said...

This is a brilliant post and gave me hope in my hart to continue wiyh my blog! 5/5stars

nYomoT said...

Thank you Andre..keep it up,never give up.Keep on posting and you will be just fine.Always believe in yourself.