Friday, May 30, 2008

The Power Of Love.

We all know what love is I presume,so I don't think there is a need to explain or elaborate about it.Most personal blogs are about love.Love for the family,love for the one you love,love your hubby,your wife..hmm..I seldom see a a blog where a guy write about his love for his wife :-),love for sports,love for games,love for your pets,love this,love that..love..love..love.I really like it when people wrote about the things or person that they love,because writing about things or person you love,is not hard and actually the best thing to write is about things or person that you love..because we always hear people saying..I just can't stop talking about him/her/it because I just love him/her/it so much!When we write about something we love,all the things just come pouring out of our heart.

Most of the time we read or hear stories of great relationship or bonding between mother and daughter..I agree..but still,I want to share my love,and my beautiful relation with my mom..I know,Mother's Day has past and I know my mom won't be able to read this,even if she can,I don't think she could understand what I'm writing about,and I actually don't want her to know,especially not from me.I'm writing this to share with all of you my love for my mom,and maybe make us realized how special,how wonderful,how meaningful our life is to have a mom.

I'm the youngest in my family,but that is not the reason why I'm closed to my mom.We're like friends,even sometimes we're like boyfriend and girlfriend..I went shopping with my mom,when I was small,during my teenage years and even now..I love shopping with my mom,she will ask me,is this nice?do you like that dress?And normally she will buy what I choose for her..love her when she do that,makes me proud you know.Even if we go out as a family,I will be the one walking with my mother,following her everywhere she goes,even now..sounds funny isn't it,well it maybe but that is my simple way of showing my mom I love her,that I don't mind spending time with her,because she never complained when she have to wake up in the middle of the night when I cried because I'm hungry,or I'm wet.

Once I have to move south because of work commitment,not that I'm not used to being away from my mom,but after about 6 month there,my eldest sister called saying my mom is not feeling well,so I take a leave,went back with my brother.My mother was lying in bed,my sister says she has been like that for 1 week now because her back hurt,but even after referring her to a specialist,the cause is not known.So I sit next to her,rubbing her back slowly,gently and whisper in her ears,I want to have dinner with her at the dinning table..she asked me if I can help her up,which I did,and we have our dinner together.My sister just laughed and said,"Should have inform you earlier,so we can save on the specialist bills"!She falls sick because she miss me.I wanted to come back to see her,but because being in a new place,there is so much to do,I only called..that is why I've decided to move back here,to be closer to her.I wanted her to live with me,but I'm not in the best position right now,hopefully life will be better,so I can bring her here,or maybe find a better house so she can live with me.

I can write thousand pages about my mom,but I think by reading this you've already know how close me and my mom is and I really value and will always treasure my relationship with her.If I did something wrong,I will hug her,kiss her cheek and ask for forgiveness,I never wait because we never know what will happen.I think what will be my greatest regret is not being able to ask forgiveness from my mom.When I visit my mom,I always hug her,kiss both cheek and forehead,because most mom would do this to their babies,so I think it is just fair to return back the favour.

Bad traits that I have,is because of what I choose to follow or habits I picked up for mixing with the wrong people,the wrong friends..but the good traits,it is what my mom taught me while bringing me up.Blame me for the bad things I do,give credit to my mom for all the nice thing I've done,I couldn't have done all those good deeds if she never taught me to and show me the way.

I Love You Mom!


3 comments:

Sandra said...

Not many bloggers write about mothers - all I can say - it's nice someone remember them, too...

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